To date or not to date?

More and more lately it's the only question going around in my head. I mean I've come to the point in my life where meeting guys and going on dates has become more like a chore rather than a pleasure.

I feel at some point in our lives we just become too busy with things and something has to give. With my past experiences, I feel that I no longer to date. I mean this week I have cancelled 3 dates because I literally didn't see any point going. Maybe it's because I just didn't feel there was a connection, or maybe I've just given up on the dating life.

The positive of not dating means I don't become a nervous, bumbling mess and embarrass myself I suppose (let's face it we have all been there) I feel like there is something wrong with me when because I don't want to date and I don't want to have fun with guys. I keep asking myself; What is wrong with me?

Then I have a good think about it and I've realised that dating just isn't that important. I have a great family, good friends, loving my job at the moment. At this moment in time, anything to do with guys just isn't important. Don't get me wrong if I meet a guy and we click then, of course, I'd go on a date. I'm just at the point in my life where I've decided to stop putting so much pressure on myself to be with someone. Just because my friends are in relationships and I'm not doesn't mean there is anything wrong with me.

I guess what I'm really saying is that it's okay not to date if you don't want to. It's okay if you want to go on loads of dates nothing wrong with either. At the end of the day as long as your happy that's all that matters.