Lets talk about sex

So a lot of people always ask me. What is gay sex like?

I personally don’t like the term ‘gay sex’ it’s just called sex people just like how I hate it when people refer to a same sex couple as a gay marriage it’s just called married.

Any way I’m getting off topic. As a lot of my close friends know I am very open about my sexuality and talking about sex. It is nothing to be ashamed of and I get asked so many questions about having sex with another guy. If you feel uncomfortable with this topic then by all means don’t read anymore. I’m going to be very honest with my responses.

So here is the top 5 questions I get asked when it comes to sex.

Number 5

Do gay guys use different types of condoms?

First of all whenever I get asked this I can’t help but laugh. The quickest answer is no. We do not use different condoms. The condoms I use are the same as every other male on the planet. What do people expect gay guy’s condoms to be like? Spikes on them? Or do they come out of the box singing ‘the sun will come out tomorrow’. By the way they don’t come out of the box singing a musical.

Number 4

Does it hurt receiving?

From my own experience yes. That’s only because I have hardly ever done that position. I’m much more comfortable being a ‘top’ But everyone is different we all have our own like and dislikes when it comes to the bedroom no matter your sexuality.

Number 3

Why do you use the terms top and a bottom? And what do they mean?

To put it politely a top is the one who is the giver and the bottom is the one who receives. These two terms are used so that when it comes to having sex each guy knows what role to have in the bedroom. Another term used is versatile this is where a guy will do either but we always prefer one over the other.

Number 2

Are you sure you are gay? You don’t look it.

What does a gay guy look like? That’s like me going up to a straight couple and being like aw you don’t look straight. I mean we are all different. Some guys are more feminine then others and others are more masculine. We are all different. If we were all the same it would be one boring place to live.

And finally the top question I get asked when people find out I’m gay. WARNING: - The top answer may leave some of you gagging or feeling a bit sick.

Number 1

When you have had sex with a guy have you ever ending up with s**t on your d**k?

Whatever you have heard about gay sex it’s all a myth. I have never once in my life ended up with s**t on my d**k. I’m sure it has happened to others but that may because of not cleaning correctly or whatever. A lot of people just assume that because we have anal it means it dirty. Well news flash people in actual fact the males G spot is located up there and that’s why more men both straight and gay like it up there.

So that’s it. The top 5 questions I have been asked by people. I’m not ashamed of who I am and some of you who are reading this may be a little off put by this but talking about these kind of subjects is nothing to be ashamed of. No matter of your sexuality sex isn’t a subject we should ashamed to talk about. It’s perfectly normal and at one point in our lives we have all done it.