Overthinking our lives

Is it just me that over thinks everything?

We go through life having expectations of what we want, where we want to go and who we want to be with.

I never used to be the kind of person that looked into things before and then BOOM! You start meeting new people, start to trust them and then they treat you like crap. Is it just me that sometimes feels broken from how someone in our past has treated us?

For example i start dating someone new and the first few weeks are great, then after those little thoughts of doubt creep into my head. I start thinking why aren't they talking? Why aren't they wanting to spend time with me?

This is when i have to keep telling myself to stop being a a clingy mess. I mean we all have our lives and we all have people we want to see and have things we need to do. It's like i have two people screaming in my head to do different things and this is when the overthinking starts to take place. I start thinking are they getting bored of me? Have i done something wrong?

NO!! Is what i have to keep telling myself. I need to start trusting people and just take each day as it comes.

It's not only when i'm dating someone, even situations with my friends get my head cogs in motion. I have to keep telling myself that i'm over thinking it and if there's a real issue then be honest with them.

What i'm really trying to say is, that we all have little niggles of doubt and we all have insecurities that we wish we could forget. We also need to stop letting our pasts determine our futures and just learn to take each day as it comes, enjoy each others company and what will be will be.